I am a student, female, 22 years old, with many hobbies. I also have a good relationship with my parents.
Why do I have nightmares about quarreling with my parents and getting so angry that I can’t even cry, and quarreling so much that I can’t bear it?
First of all, in the dream, my mother and father were not getting along, and I helped my mother deal with my father. My father invited many people to be guests, so I secretly made trouble. The guests felt that our family was not interesting at all. I kept ridiculing my father and embarrassing him. I clearly remember in the dream that in the end the guests couldn't bear it any more, and even the closest uncles wanted to escape. Then I remembered my father's guilty and overwhelmed eyes, and I was still sarcastically sarcastic about his failure. That's bad, who told you to treat your mother badly, etc. He scolded him so much that he became very angry, and was so angry that he couldn't speak. In the end, my mother couldn't stand it anymore and felt sorry for my father.
Oh my god, I really love my parents and I would never scold them. What does this dream mean? What can it express in my heart? Why should I be so angry with my lovely father?
Moreover, Zhou Gong’s dream interpretation said that dreaming about entertaining guests would be very unlucky, and the family would be destroyed. I was frightened. However, the invitation in my dream was very unpleasant, and there was no food, food, etc. It seemed that I was just inviting people, not yet. I had a good time to entertain him, but he was upset by me.
(Dream Interpretation by Zhou Gong www.zgjM.org) Dream Interpretation: Don’t worry, this dream has no direct connection with the relationship between you and your parents in reality, and it does not have any ominous foreshadowing. This dream expresses some emotional things. Why express it in terms of the relationship between you and your parents? The reason is this. In your emotional model, because you have a sense of dependence on your father, in the three people composed of you, your mother, and your father. In the family relationship, the father is of the opposite sex, so as he grows up, he learns some of the characteristics of his mother as a more mature person of the same sex, and regards his father as the object of attention. Therefore, as he grows up, he is perfecting his emotional model. There are shadows of parents in it. You didn't mention whether you have a boyfriend or not. It can be seen from this dream that if you have a boyfriend, your self can be divided into two sub-personalities during your interactions with your boyfriend. One is a mature personality like a mother, and the other is a mature personality like a mother. Just like myself in front of my father, I have a dependent personality. Looking at this dream in this way, the meaning becomes clearer. The disagreement between mother and father means that there are some small conflicts in your interactions with the opposite sex. The guests refer to the people around you in your life. Some friends, when you help your mother deal with your father, it means that the dependent sub-personality in your self starts to deal with your opposite sex the same way it dealt with your father. In the end, you can no longer even stand the other sub-personality and feel that the opposite sex is pitiful.